Let's analyze some of the
problems that lovers face most often.
Lack of trust on either side is the major problem creator in
a relationship. Women chiefly succumb to unnecessary
suspicion resulting in an eventual break up with their
partners. On the other hand, men hate being nagged randomly.
However, this does not mean that men can take their partners
for granted. The best thing a couple can do is to allow
equal space to each other; confide in their darkest secrets,
and try to figure out mutual problems.
It's very important for couples to know each other. No two
persons are alike and hence one must respect each other's
identity. One should not try to make an argument out of
insignificant things. However, if arguments take place, make
sure that you attempt reconciliation. Showing that 'you
care' is one of the best kept secrets in a loving
Notwithstanding the above-mentioned issues, their crops up
some intimate problems, which demand more attention and
perhaps even professional support. Many partners shy away
from the most wonderful gift of God to mankind- sex. Sexual
encounter is an inevitable aspect of conjugal life and
trying to remain celibate post marriage is quite illogical.
Failure as an ideal sex partner might be another trouble in
your sex life. A situation might arise wherein your passion
has lost its erstwhile spark or you have been unable to
light a single spark in the first night itself!
Dissatisfaction in a relationship often calls for
extra-marital affairs or adultery. The result- more trouble,
These love pangs can best be sorted with the help of
professional sex experts or 'sexperts'. The sexpert can
guide you to tackle your love challenges wittingly. With
their guidance and support, you can actually sail smoothly
over the intermittent waves of love and sex.
In the beginning, when love is new, romance, courting and
conquest are aphrodisiacs, stimulants that increase our
appetite for sexual union. Eventually the chase ends, hearts
are won, and lifetime pledges are made. The happy couple
says "I do," strolls off into the sunset together, destined
to be lovers forever.
So what happens? The newness fades, the passion flees. Where
does it go? Does it get mortgaged along with the house?
Disposed with the diapers? Years ago, Mary, age 49, shyly
told her family doctor that she had lost interest in having
sex with her husband. She was told this was a natural event,
which women eventually lose interest and that's the way it
is. For some women, she was told, it comes earlier. Today,
Mary might be offered testosterone patches to fire up her
Martin, age 59, is having erectile difficulties. Viagra to
Times may have changed, but is it really just a story of
diminishing hormones and loss of blood flow? The popularity
of these new biologically-based treatments attests to their
effectiveness as sexual aids. Yet we continue to yearn for
the fulfillment of a deeper intimacy. Reviving the mechanics
of our sex life may help, but it does not fully address the
hunger in our hearts. We desire even more than the wonderful
climax of sexual release. We crave a connection with our
partner's soul. We ache to embrace a love that lights up our
eyes, that enlivens our very being.