Does size really matter?
Some would say “no”, but they would be lying. Size DOES
matter in just about everything. As a society, overall, we
all want everything bigger–SUPER-sized! Wouldn’t it be great
if it was that easy to get the perfect male sex organ?
Imagine meeting someone,
getting to know him, and really liking him. The customary
and acceptable number of dates has been fulfilled, and as
you draw nearer to “the big reveal”, you are filled with
anticipation, excitement and angst. Your prayers are filled
with requests of big rewards. I mean, “...he’s almost
perfect in every other way so please, Please, PLEASE let his
manhood be representative of his manhood!” You’re in the
moment. There is no lack of passion. You’re ravenous for
each other. Tops are off. Your hands slide down his six
-pack and you slowly unzip his jeans. Your hand is stretched
for the full palm grab and as you make the connection, your
chest deflates. WHERE is it? You force your hand from
patting around in there like you lost something important.
Inside you’re crying. Passion has left the room, the moment
and the relationship. Now would be a good time to place an
order… “Larger penis, please!”
That night continues like
many others before it / him. He is completely unaware of the
monumental shift he just created in your world. You can’t
(and don’t want to) deal with it right now – or EVER – so
you just continue and go with the very slow and tear-jerking
flow. He thinks you are moved to tears by emotion; he is not
completely wrong. The highlight? You KNOW “the oral” will,
likely, be life changing. It HAS to be… right?
There are certain sex
equations that never fail; Little Penis = Extended Foreplay
+ Amazing Oral (almost every time). It just is what it is.
But how long is that going to be enough?
I have often wondered,
“Is it a subconscious reality for the man with a smaller
penis to BE nice BECAUSE he has no penis? Or is it a
conscious choice?” At what point in his sexual travels does
he realize he MUST master cunnilingus? When does it become
apparent to him that he needs to be a good listener, an
excellent communicator and get to know the “va-jay-jay”
better than his more ample and, therefore, more desirable
Regardless of the
formula, there isn’t a woman alive who hasn’t convinced
herself, at some point in her life, that she can deal with
it. Myself included. We ask ourselves, “How important IS sex
anyway?” In the LONG RUN, isn’t it all about compatibility
and companionship? Those self-inflicted mind games might
work for a minute, but unless you’re willing to settle for
toys and let go of hope, his penis will actually get bigger;
you will never be able to sustain it. Foreplay is no
substitute for a nice finish. Unless you’re a “closet
lesbian”, you’re gonna need “the real deal penis” at the end
of every session… and I’m guessing a strap- on for your man
is not an option.
Is it fair that most
often: Asshole = Huge Penis + Game Player? No. But, again, I
have to ask myself, “Is it a subconscious reality for the
man with the larger penis to be an ass BECAUSE he has what
every woman wants and cannot resist?” Why else would a woman
go back, time and time again, to the same jerk of a man who
has no idea what it means to BE a spouse or a keeper of
hearts? Just like a man can be whipped…Oh, how we women can
succumb to the dick.
We want to believe that
the nice guy can satisfy us in other ways; after all,
orgasms are nice and, of course, it’s the ultimate goal.
Most women easily reach it via oral stimulation. It stands
to reason that if this is a guaranteed way to orgasm, what
difference does the size of his penis matter when he is a
“cunnilingus master”? The only thing a woman wants more than
a good oral orgasm is a nice, fat dick to follow it up.
Sadly, at some point, we will be forced to settle for what
he has, or to look outside of the relationship for sexual
satisfaction. While these may not be the most politically
correct, or morally acceptable resolutions, they are
options, none the less. And since there’s just no way to
ever place your own customized order...