Itís More Exciting Falling in Love
Than Being in Love
C Double R
We all know how it is
when you meet that special person, you canít wait to call
them, to see them, to touch them, to make love to them, just
the mere mention of their name drives you insane. Even when
he or she forgets to call when they said they would you
donít care, youíre just glad that they finally did call.
Or when they cancel your date at the last minute, itís all
good because you know they will make it up to you next week.
These are the things that we tolerate, or overlook when
we are falling in love.
we are actually in love things are a little different.
Falling in love is always a pleasure in the process, being
in love is always work in progress. Once youíre in love
youíre less tolerant of the excuses, the missed calls and
the cancelled dates. Being in love is more about making
sacrifices and less about the euphoric feelings you had when
you were falling in love. Being in love is about commitment.
Some may say it is easy to fall in love, but itís much
harder to stay in love. Once the novelty of the relationship
wears off reality starts to kick in. Staying in love is hard
work because you constantly have to think of new ways to
keep the spark in the relationship, in and outside of the
bedroom, which can sometimes become more of a chore than
Everyone wants to fall
in love, but does in one really want to put in the effort to
stay in love? Love is not a phase, love is life. When
you accept love into your heart youíre accepting love into
your life, which means you have to be prepared to take on
the responsibilities of love. Love is being there when your
partner needs you in the worst of time, not the best of
times. Love is accepting your partner even when they change
physically. Love is learning to accept your partner for
their flaws and loving them the most when they deserve it
If you are willing to
take on these complexities of love then being and love may
be as exciting as falling in love for you!
Iím just saying.
C Double R!